The Ultimate List of Age-Appropriate Chores
Stop doing everything yourself. Kids are more capable than we think. Here is what they can actually do at each age.
Why Chores Matter
Chores aren't just about getting the house clean. They teach responsibility, competence, and contribution. Research shows that children who do chores have higher self-esteem and are more successful later in life.
Ages 4-5 (Preschool)
Focus on skills like matching and putting away.
- Put away toys
- Put dirty clothes in hamper
- Make bed (messily)
- Feed pets (with help)
- Match socks in laundry
- Water plants
Ages 6-8 (Early Elementary)
Can follow 2-3 step instructions independently.
- Set and clear the table
- Empty small trash cans
- Sweep floors
- Fold towels
- Load dishwasher (easy items)
- Pack school lunch (with help)
Ages 9-11 (Tweens)
Capable of complex tasks and better quality control.
- Load/Unload dishwasher
- Vacuum common areas
- Take out trash/recycling
- Clean bathroom sinks
- Fold their own laundry
- Walk the dog (short distances)
Ages 12+ (Teens)
Preparation for adulthood. Can manage tasks completely alone.
- Do entire laundry cycle
- Cook simple meals
- Clean bathrooms (toilets/showers)
- Mow the lawn
- Wash the car
- Grocery shopping (small lists)
Paid vs. Unpaid Chores
Should you pay for these? We recommend separating chores into two lists:
- Citizen Chores: Daily expectations (making bed, clearing table) - UNPAID.
- Gig Work: Extra jobs (washing car, mowing lawn) - PAID.